How can you accept people easily in life?

Hello lovely angels,

How are you? And how have you been?

It’s been almost two weeks since I wrote anything.

During this time, I was in a way to mend my life.

It is difficult to choose the right path.

And I was on the verge of procrastination, about this blog and all.

I had no ideas about what to share with you. And I was feeling like everything is finished.

But then I ask the God to be in action and write through me, as He always does.

So, here is today’s blog.



The life is not so simple. People take things for granted too often than they should.

In our daily lives, we keep ourselves in such turmoil that we have not even a single minute to feel our breath.

The life feels to be working on an automatic button.

Each day starts with a complaint and ends with the same.

The essence of life is destroyed by an unwanted drama that had entered through our television sets to our life. And the problem is that we have accepted this all. We are happy living a life with the automatic button on.

It is good to accept the things that are predefined to happen in our life. But living in the automatic mode is different.

People have the problem with one another because we let the drama enter in our life.

If we cut the attachments from this dramatic life we could start seeing things from the perspective of others.

Why accept the things as they are?

Let’s see.

If you have a relative who keeps annoying you and creating difficult situations. However, you try to be calm and good towards this person he/she keeps making your life upset.

What will you do? Accept him/her.

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You would ask that why should you accept him.

{Well, do you have any other choice? If you had you won’t be asking this question in first place.}

Ok, what you need to accept is that the person will be like that and he is not going to change.

And you are not responsible for changing this person. You are accountable to change yourself.

So, you know that this person is a pain in the neck, which means there are no ways you can help him change.




What’s the option?

So, the last option is to accept this reality.

This person is not going to change. He will keep giving you those heartaches.

The best way is to accept the person’s personality.

Now for this, you need to accept this person as he is.

{‘m I crazy… no,!}

The point is that when you get angry with this person he gets the energy to be more powerful. And he annoys you even more.

So, you need to calm yourself in his presence and say yourself,

“He is going to be like this. And I have no option but to be calm. I am accepting his positive energy. And I am okay to see only the positive in him. Help me, God, to accept this person.”

Keep saying these words {or whatever feels good to you}

This way you are preparing yourself to accept only the good in that person. When you see only fine you receive well.

This is the real essence of acceptance.

an example

Let’s say my boss is always nagging me. She keeps interfering in my work. And she does everything she could to make my life hell. She calls me after office to work on something from home. She doesn’t let me enjoy time with my family and asks to finish up some project at home.

What can I do?

I would be so frustrated that I would want to leave my job. But my friend suggested not leaving that well-paid job because bosses are always like this anywhere I will go.

So, I have only one option and that is to accept her as she is and keep working under her with pain in the heart.

The twist

{Well, I always love the twist in a story}


I decided to accept only her good and not her bad.

I meditated and ask my higher self to be present with me while I tackle this boss of mine.

Next day, when I reached office what would I have done is this:

I closed my eyes and pray to my higher self to be with me and help me see and accept only the positive part of my boss.

After a few deep breaths, I open my eyes and went to the boss’ cabin.

I told her the negative part that is creating difficulty in my life. And once I am done with this, my boss would be pretty angry with me.



So, without letting her say any word I pointed out the positive aspects of her personality.

And slowly would tell her that if she would think about improving her positive nature she could win the hearts of her customers and employees.

I would question her about what she would like to have in her life – hatred from others in their heart or the loving respect from everyone.

This is the end of our meeting.


The result of this bitter-sweet meeting with my boss could be, either I would get fired or my points would go deep down her heart.

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Well, the first option is always bad and painful, but you already were thinking about the same. I mean leaving the job.

So, you can attract another nice job with lower salary but better-working conditions. {Or even better salary and better-working conditions}

But if your boss got your point she/he would definitely change.

Acceptance is not accepting the bad of anyone. But acceptance is to try to accept only the good in everyone and tries to help them get positive.

Even I have faults, but the good thing will be to try to change myself.

The life is too short to fight or be angry. Love is the only option.

I always talk about love and today too I would say that if you start seeing love in every person half of your problems will end.

Accept the good in others and try to remove negatives from yourself.

If there are options in any relationship, then try to help others improve.

It’s not bad to tell other’s their minus points, but be generous in your approach.

There are some people who hate when people say wrong about them. Try to find a positive way to tackle them.

And if you don’t find a way out then anytime call your divine helpers. They are just a call away.

And listen to the little voice. It never lies.

This little voice in your head will instruct you in a positive way to accept others as they are. And then you won’t feel burdened about accepting negatives of people around you.

{Remember that the voice of ego is always negative or will scare you. But the voice of love is always positive and enlightening}

So, now you are ready for accepting others as they are.

If you have questions please feel free to comment and ask me anything. And I will try to find a helpful solution to your problem. Life is short, enjoy it to the fullest.

With lots of love,

Live in Light,


Kirtti is an Energy Alchemist who detects the negative energy of her clients and transform it into abundance with Spiritual Guidance. She is a Certified Life Coach. She is a Certified Reiki Master & Teacher, Realm reader, Master NLP Practitioner, and Hypnotist. In addition to this, she is an Intuitive Tarot & Oracle Card reader, Angel reader, Meditation Coach, Psychic and Medium. Her expertise is to bring on easy to consume and follow steps to come out of any problems.