Sensitive Child – A no scolding zone.
Hello beautiful people,
I realized that, I love talking about sensitive children. Being a mother of a sensitive energetic boy angel I feel more connected to all the children on earth more easily. They are full of energy, love for everyone and they are too delicate.
I believe that each child born on earth carries a tag “Handle with care”. And we do care for them when they are very small.
Do you remember how much you felt upset when your little baby hurt himself while crawling?
Or did your little girl fall down and had a bump on head when she was trying to walk for the first time?
These things are common but being a parent we feel so bad, while the little child keeps on learning without any guilt.
Why is there guilt? It is okay for a child to stand up while crying and try to walk again. There is too much we can learn from these little sensitive angels.
Little children love to learn everything no matter how many times they fall. They just want to accomplish their goal. If your child is a sensitive, then he/she will cry more or would take more time to learn things, but they are eager to learn.
Have you noticed that you scold an older child more than younger child?
When our children get older we try to fit them into the social norms. That means we teach them how to sit, stand, walk and talk in social gathering or in front of guests. Our society gives us an idea on how to raise our kids. We love when our kids do mischief but we have to tell them that it is not okay to behave like that in public place.
This is okay to teach our kids to survive in our society. But, these standards are different for sensitive children, because they question too much. They have to get the answer for everything being taught. And at these moments parents get angry.
When your child asks too many questions starting with ‘why’ you would actually get angry. It is okay to be angry but you need to understand that your enlightened child want to know about things in detail. This gives them validity that they are on the right path.
While raising a sensitive child it is not the right thing to get angry. They want to get educated about everything and being a parent you have to learn more and more to quench their thirst of learning.
How to be calm with a sensitive child?
When the next time you get angry on those little questions, ask your child to wait. Because with hundreds of questions in a day your mind get hot and you need to cool it down. Tell your sensitive child that you would answer her question after a while. Take a few deep breaths and say these lines in your mind:
“My children are learning when they ask questions. I have to help them. So please God help me to be calm while answering my children. Please give me strength to raise positive and powerfully sensitive children. Help me to calm my anger in a few deep breaths so that I won’t provide negative energy to my children. Thank you. ”
You can add anything you like to this statement. This little statement is to remind your subconscious mind that you need to be calm while raising your child. Even if you are not sure that your child is an empath i.e sensitive this statement will help you raise your children with positive mindset.
Some more things about your Sensitive child…
Although, sensitive children are peaceful by nature and mostly introvert, but they are the kids who are as sticky as gum. They are always being attached to one of the parents. They always need someone close to them. They want their favorite parent [mostly mummy] to be in front of their eyes.
This is the second thing that can annoy a parent [or both parents]. This makes the parents angry. So, again follow that simple method to calm you mind and enjoy some cuddling with your sensitive child. Because when they will get older and understand their true life purpose they won’t be staying closer to you. They would be traveling around the world to either healing the earth or solving big problems in other’s life.
Most parents want their child to learn to be independent from early age. Sorry, but I have to say that your sensitive child won’t be independent until he/she gets older. Your child would cry when his classmate hit him. Your child will cry when someone snatch her things. And your child will cry when you are nowhere around.
Your sensitive children will be crying most of the times when they don’t know the reason. And believe me you would be so angry at those moments. Believe me; you would have fiery hot boiling brain at that time. Not only because your child is crying without any reason, but also because other family members [or onlookers] starts taunting your little sensitive child. And being a parent your most of the fire of anger will go towards your crying child.
Stop right there. Because if you would shout, scold or slap your crying child he would cry even harder. And the onlookers won’t be quite. They are there to bully your sensitive child.
At that moment calm down and hug your crying child. Go, on. Hug your crying child lovingly.
Believe me, this is a tested and best option at this time. Hug your crying sensitive empath.
When you hug your child, two beautiful things happen. No, this will have actually three reactions.
Firstly, your crying child will feel peaceful and safe with your loving hug and this will send positive vibes to your child.
Secondly, when you will hug your child you will be able to understand your little sensitive child more and this will calm your hot boiling brain. This will help you to re-connect with the vibrations of your child.
Thirdly, and most important reaction is that the onlookers who were taunting hard to show you as though your child is a misfit to the so called society, would get a big shock.
Do you know why? Because when someone see your child crying he/she would say, “why does your child keeps crying for no reason? How would he be independent when he gets older?” or any such thing. They had this in mind to let you down in public because of your child. That is totally stupid idea. And when you hug and kiss your child in response of this, the person will be shocked.
No matter what others think or say about your sensitive child, you have to be there to love them and understand them.
Read more and more about your sensitive child and be a proud parent that your child is a bringer of positive energy to this earth.
Amplify your span of learning and help the little sensitive lightworkers to bring the white light of God to earth. Feel to be a parent of a powerful warrior. Feel and understand your loving sensitive angel.
Read more and share more with your family and friends so that they will understand the purpose of your as well as their sensitive children.
Let there be light and love on earth.
Hope you get some useful stuff from today’s blog. These beautiful things help me in raising my beautiful emapth child. I feel that I am more than lucky to have him in my life. I am proud to say that I am a mother of a Sensitive Boy. Please, share your comments and experiences with your sensitive children with us.
Live in Light,